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Post by xxxxSTINKFISTxxxx on Mar 24, 2005 16:54:10 GMT -5
Have a very scary or odd dream? or mybe just a reoccuring dream and you would like to talk about it and hopefuly get some answers to, well thats why i made this thread ;D
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Post by lilacJ on Apr 3, 2005 14:13:08 GMT -5
Have a very scary or odd dream? or mybe just a reoccuring dream and you would like to talk about it and hopefuly get some answers to, well thats why i made this thread ;D Never saw this thread! Cool one qx stinkfist xq (c/o Halo ) Strange thing is, I'm unable to remember my dreams, I know I dream, I just don't seem to recall what they were all about. I used to have really horrid dreams, especially when I was with my ex, lately I've been able to work through a lot of issues, and my subconcious doesn't seem to be bothering me that much anymore. I'd like to see if I could help you with yours, and if you get a chance, get Carl Jung's 'Modren Man in Search of a Soul' and 'Dreams', it may help you solve the recurring one!
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Post by Halo on Apr 3, 2005 23:33:18 GMT -5
I used to have a re-occurring dream. They were the most vivid dreams and I always remembered every detail about them. Each dream I was in a different place, different situation, but they all had one thing in common. Each dream I was in a different place and then something would happen where I would desperately need to get out of this place. The reasons I had to get out in each dream were pretty bizarre, but you know how dreams are.....they make sense when they are happening. For instance. One dream I was at a party in a club. The place was packed. I was talking with a few people but some guy from New York in particular. All of a sudden some people came in to the club and starting shooting. Everyone was freaking and trying to get out. I knew I had to leave, but I couldn't leave until I phoned someone to let them know I was leaving. (This is the common thread in each dream.) Why I would have to call someone I have no idea. But in each dream....I just had to. I absolutely could not leave until I would make contact with whoever it was I needed to call. Never figured out who that was. In this dream I didn't have my cell phone, so I grabbed the NY guys cell and tried to make a call. This is stupid, but I couldn't get any calls to go through......the phone was only for New York and I couldn't make any calls from where I was. I kept trying and trying. I called the New York directory assistance and had them try and help me, I called the NY 911 and tried them. Each dream I was desperate to make this phone call so I could leave and get out of harms way , but for different reasons I couldn't get it done! This is the point in each dream where I would wake up. Completely frustrated that I couldn't get this phone call through and knowing I had to leave where I was. One dream took place at a friends house. The reason we had to leave was we found out the house was haunted by demons. Yes, fucking demons.....don't laugh. Again...I knew I had to hurry and leave but had to get a message to someone. This time it wasn't the phone. I was trying to leave a note. I searched the house for paper and pen to no avail. I looked everywhere. Everyone else had left the house, but I had to get this note left before I could leave. I tried magazines and couldn't find a page in any one that had any blank space I could write on. I finally found a tiny scratch of paper and a pen and the damn pen was out of ink. Again.....woke up at this point. In another....it was trying to make the phone call again. But I kept hitting the wrong buttons on the phone over and over again. I had several of these dreams, all in different places, all different reasons why I needed to leave (one was a fire, I remember) and each time I wouldn't leave until that damn message was sent, but something kept me, in each dream, from getting this message through. So, in each dream, I needed for some reason to get the hell out of where I was because I was in danger. But in each dream I couldn't leave until I got this message to someone. Never remembered who this message was to. Each dream my attempts to get this message through so I could save myself....was thwarted every time. These used to drive me nuts. But....I haven't had one since I've been divorced. With that in mind, what I think it was, was that I was feeling trapped, I was in harm's way in this marriage. I knew I needed to get out. The message I was trying to get through....maybe it was either to myself to just do it and save myself, but I was having a hard time doing that, or maybe it was trying to get the message to my ex that I needed to leave and couldn't quite do it. Whatever it was they were constant for quite sometime, very, very frustrating, but like I said, haven't had one since being divorced.
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Post by lilacJ on Apr 4, 2005 6:44:55 GMT -5
Wow H, that's pretty weird! May I give you my take on the whole calling someone thing? If you haven't had one since your divorce it's almost obvious to me that you were always seeking approval from someone who had this kinda control over you, all the dreams relate to your survival, taking note of this, it's almost like you couldn't do anything without these parties approval, may not have been your ex, yet it all leads towards that, could also be your family, maybe not being there to have helped you, or they were helping too much and you were constantly thinking you needed to ask permissions prior to do anything, even if it did almost cost you your life...... That's Psycho Jo signing out for the day. Hope I was a bit of help...... ;D If not, then I'll shut it for next time.... hehe! j/k
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Post by Halo on Apr 4, 2005 11:12:17 GMT -5
Thanks for your input J.
But, I'm not sure it was about approval, although my ex was very controlling. Also it wouldn't have anything to do with family members as they are very supportive, yet I never involved them in any problems in the marriage.
I think it was more that the calls and the messages I was trying to get out, was me trying to find the courage to save myself but not quite being able to do it at that time.
I don't really know. Possibly approval had something to do with it also, as I said, the ex was very controlling. And maybe the calls and messages were me trying desperately to take back control and tell him I am leaving (since each dream was about trying to leave a situation), but at the time was having a hard time gaining my own control and standing up for myself.
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Post by moneyisevil on Apr 4, 2005 12:30:08 GMT -5
My reoccuring dream since 2001
Its happened atleast 15-20 times....
I'll be dreaming...i'll look to the sky and see airplanes flying...then all of a sudden they do a a little flip in the sky....and then point their noses down and hit the ground..all around me screaming and planes just falling out of the sky...running...panic....crying....
And it's always the same dream....
It's weird cuz when im awake i'll just stare at a plane waiting for it to dive down into the ground....its frightening....this all started happening after 9/11....
but a dream i had before 9/11....
I'm flying....in an airplane..when i see a casket...with a big white cross on it...just on the airplane....and since then i havent flown....
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Post by alienation on Apr 4, 2005 20:28:40 GMT -5
In another....it was trying to make the phone call again. But I kept hitting the wrong buttons on the phone over and over again. I have had this happen in dreams many times.
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Post by xxxxSTINKFISTxxxx on Apr 4, 2005 20:54:47 GMT -5
wow moneyisevil, that would be a really crazy dream. I am thinking that mybe your stressed out or worried about something, your worried about your life mybe and were its heading. The plains begin to crash like your whole world is coming to an end and the pain and suffering follows. I dont know if this is right or not but this is just what i belive, i think your worried about something thats going to happen.
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Post by xxxxSTINKFISTxxxx on Apr 4, 2005 21:12:28 GMT -5
Heres a dream that i have often.
Its kinda like what Halo has been saying the dreams are the same but the place is always diffrent.
It starts out i am in a huge house. There are about 20 diffrent people in this house and all of them are old. There are also about 6 dogs in the house and they are always following me. So everyone goes to sleep and in the night i here a noise. I turn on a light to find one of the dogs is dead and my hands are stained with blood. The old people see the dog and look at me but dont do or say anything they all go back to sleep. I end up going downstairs and seeing another dog and following it. For some reason i chase the dog around a stairs for a short time and when i finaly get it the dog is laying dead and its cut up into 5 parts. After i see the dog i notice not far from it another stairs that goes down, so i go down tehse stairs and at the very last step you are judged, you either go into hell or heaven.Then out of no where a black haired girl probly about the age of 13 or 14 runs down to the step and these unicorns very pure who up in the darkness and she drifts away. I begin to go down to the last step but when i get there i see the dead dogs and there eyes are red, and in the distant shadows the girl is calling me but i cannot see anything. I am really afraid of this step in the dream i dont know why but it scars me more then anything. so i run up and i awaken.
The dream is almost always the same but sometimes the house is diffrent.
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Post by xxxxSTINKFISTxxxx on Apr 9, 2005 4:33:05 GMT -5
so...........how is everyone?
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Post by TheAnomicSoul on Apr 9, 2005 4:39:33 GMT -5
I should be sleeping it is 5 30 in the AM. I always have nightmares about bein chased then I eventually get murdred. For some reason i remember how i died and I witness it. I once had a series of it. 10 days straight i got killed in my dreams 10 diffrent times by the same guy. Kinda like Freddy shit but I dont get scars the next day. It's really weird.
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Post by Halo on Apr 9, 2005 20:52:55 GMT -5
Money, did you have any kind of fear of flying before these dreams?
You say these dreams only started after 9/11. Could 9/11 have had more of an affect on you than you think? Maybe the events of that day brought about some other issues in your life, such as what stinky was saying, that you have a feeling that your world is ending. Well, not really ending, but maybe that you think there is no hope for anything better? Maybe you feel that any attempts at a better future (looking to the sky) is thwarted by your own feelings that it can't happen (the planes diving in).
The other dream could possibly be interpreted as the same really. You're on an airplane going somewhere (someplace positive in your life) and again your own feelings that it can't happen stop it (the casket could be the fear stopping you?)
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Post by Halo on Apr 9, 2005 21:02:05 GMT -5
Stinky......I'm at a loss over your dream! Wow. I've read it over and over. The only thing that comes to mind is that maybe you are afraid to take a "step forward" in your life? That you're afraid you will make the wrong decision and fuck something up? Or afraid of what others may think? In the beginning of the dream the dogs are always following you (the dogs could represent your future) but then you find them dead and blood on your hands. That's where I'm getting this "making the wrong decisions" thing. The stairs and being so afraid to take that last step could represent a fear of moving forward in your life. (Remember, I have no idea what the hell I am talking about! I'm just doing what this thread is about, making interpretations.)
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Post by xxxxSTINKFISTxxxx on Apr 10, 2005 1:27:32 GMT -5
hahah, ;D. Thanx Halo, im glad your giving your view on things. Some of what your saying makes since, but yet the dream seems to be wanting me to figure something out, i just dont know what in the hell to think.
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Post by britany on Apr 16, 2005 0:59:53 GMT -5
Well once i had a dream that some one was talking to me but all i could see was my room and it was night time but this is what it was talking about "the box has shadows but the shadows get taken away were do they go? some would say well they are erased, but they are not they are still there like if some one lost their memories they are still in the brain they don't go any where so if you erase something it is not gone it is simply not in that place you want it, it is stored away or stored away for good" i have no idea what this is supost to mean i just thought it was cool that i remembered it........
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