I need some advice for my brother.

[TheAnomicSoul]

Ok... My oldest brother Matt left Indiana to come here and live here until his court date on July 7th. Now my brother was in a band in Indiana. and they are actually really good. But now he is trying to change his life... quit smokin weed and all that. So now he has a choice. Live here and change his life. Or go back to Indiana which isn't band and work with the band. They have soem gigs coming up real soon. My brother dosen't want to leave the band cause he has alot of confidence. This has been his dream sence he was like 8 and now he has it. Should he just throw his dream away and give it up or stay here and try to change his life?

[Halo]

Kevin, why can't your brother change his life in Indiana? If he is determined to change his life, I would think he could do it anywhere.

I'm assuming he has some bad influences there, maybe got in with the wrong crowd or something? If so, it may make changing his life a little harder, but again, if he is determined to do so and wants to stay with his band, he can fight the "influences" and make what he wants out of his life. It's really up to him how bad he wants this.